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Stephanie and Brian are definitely our kind of couple!! We’ve enjoyed them for months, ever since their engagement session with us in the autumn of 2005. The wedding day was bright and sunny, and their party of some 19 others contributed toward a lively and completely enjoyable day. What a fantastic group, each and every one! We were so happy for the way everything went for these two.

Warm sunlight poured in through the stained glass windows of the church as they said their vows to one another. After being pronounced as man and wife, we all drove to the grounds of a local mansion for some fun wedding party photos. Once those were done, we got some “alone time” with Stephanie and Brian. The gorgeous setting sun provided the soft lighting that worked so beautifully for their romantic mood. We couldn’t have asked for better.

The reception was held at Patriot Hills in Stony Point, NY. What an excellent and friendly staff they have there. We’ve always enjoyed the food and helpful service there and knew they would take good care of our couple (Steph & Brian, thank you for the incredible meal. You made us feel like honored guests at your party!). Music was provided by DJ Dalen, and the sounds of soulful jazz played in the background until it was time for everyone to get onto the dance floor. Video services were expertly handled by Jennifer Cassaro of Masterpiece Video Productions.

As the evening drew to a close, Stephanie and Brian pulled us aside for a private and romantic photo session to close the evening. What an awesome time we had! They mentioned how they were able to forget any nervousness about being in front of a camera, and simply enjoyed themselves. We know they’re going to love the results that came out of these small pockets of time they created through the day. Thanks so much, guys, for allowing us to be a part of it all. We love you both, and appreciated your call from the airport!! It meant a lot to us. 🙂

Their online gallery of photos will be released following their return from their honeymoon. So in about a week or so, look for them in the “Client Proofs” area of our main website. Until then, enjoy the photo included in this blog entry for a taste of just how much fun we had with this awesome couple! Feel free to click it for a larger version.

All of the couples who work with us will no doubt notice that we emphasize spending some time alone with the bride and groom during some segment of their wedding day. We cannot state enough how important this is. Of course, we will get plenty of candid moments of you two throughout the day. However, there is no substitute for beautiful portraits. We get lots of feedback from couples about how much they enjoy this photography time, as we keep it fun and relaxed. One bride even called us on the way to her honeymoon to tell us how much fun she had taking pictures! It becomes a nice quiet break in the day for you two, away from all the people and pressure – a time when you can just concentrate on each other and how you’re feeling at that moment.

To help make sure this time is available, we are more than happy to help you develop your wedding day schedule. The biggest mistake we often see is planning something for every single minute. You’ll want to make sure there is buffer time in case things run a little late so that you’re not stressed. Your day will go so quickly it will be a blur, so planning in advance will help to ensure that everything important to you is accomplished. If you’re currently at the stage of planning your schedule, please call us – we look forward to hearing from you!

Here is a beautiful example of a couple who gave us time before the wedding…


One who stole away with us time during a quiet time in the reception…

And one who planned a sunset getaway with us…

Amy and Dave met us at a park that we’d never been to before. Although we don’t have much greenery yet in our area of NY, we were ecstatic that we had clear blue skies and warm temperatures. But it’s not as if Amy and Dave needed the more cooperative weather to put them in a loving mood. They were simply happy to be there together as we enjoyed a warm and cozy photo shoot together. They shared a natural ease with one another that translated beautifully through the camera. We can’t wait for their spring wedding day to arrive.

Their online gallery is now available in the “Client Proofs” area of our main website. We’ve also provided this preview slideshow (PC only). Thanks in advance for any comments you’d like to leave on the blog; just click the Comment button below this entry. 🙂

Jenni and I love taking pictures. Whenever we meet with clients, we always talk about how the shooting is only one part of the creative process. Images captured in camera, whether film or digital, still need to be “finished”. This is the case with our own photos, as well. While our focus is upon the couple’s deep feelings for one another, their expression of affection for one another, and producing the best moment frozen in that image, we also enjoy working on these photos to bring out their best for color, mood, and emotive impact. A proof alone will not completely convey the vision that Jenni and I have for that particular image in its finalized state. So what do we do? How can we convey our ideas to you, while also helping you enjoy your photos?

When we have the time available between shooting sessions, we create a little preview slideshow (for PC users only… no Mac version available at this time), which includes select images to demonstrate the way we “see” your photos. This slideshow gives you a chance to slow down, stop and drink in the beauty of your images in a way that the proofs may not. If it is a wedding slideshow, we also might be hinting at images that would look superb in your wedding album or as larger artistic wall prints. 😉

A preview slideshow here at Ulysses Photography lasts only about a minute. But we also offer an Artist’s Choice Slideshow on DVD for engagement sessions as well as for your wedding images. This is what you might consider as a “director’s cut” of images (about 25 from an engagement session, and about 100 from a wedding), chosen by myself and Jenni, and then given a large dose of TLC during post-processing to produce a one-of-a-kind commemoration of your day together. Our emphasis is upon the pictures and the way these make you feel, rather than upon the show itself. But instead of using more words to describe it, why not take a look at a few recent examples of preview shows. The DVD versions of these shows are somewhat longer, with more images, but very similar in feel:

Jaime and Brett’s Engagement Preview

Jamee and Jeff’s Wedding Preview

Vivian and John’s Wedding Preview

We hope you enjoy shows like these. They are our way of providing another way to enjoy your photos. If you’d like to find out more about these, feel free to write and ask about them. Or request your very own Artist Choice Slideshow on DVD when going through your proof gallery. We think you’ll enjoy it immensely.

We love the Boston area. We have family there and always enjoy visiting. This time, we were there to spend some time with two beautiful people, Jaime and Brett, whose wedding we’ll be shooting in a few months. They are a wonderful couple. Jaime was simply radiant, her bright blue eyes flashing and her smile beaming on this rather brisk day. Her fiance, Brett, kept his eyes on her and his arms wrapped around her to keep her warm. All of his camera shyness just melted away during those moments,  just as we’d planned, and we were able to capture some lovely images for them. Their day promises to be a day full of emotion and meaning for so many, including the two of us. We just love them and can’t wait for their wedding.

We’re working on getting their gallery online soon. Stay tuned to the “Client Proofs” area of our main website. In the meantime, click the image above to see a larger version.

UPDATE: Online gallery now available! Enjoy!

No doubt you’ve heard the following story: Girl meets boy… boy makes girl laugh… they fall in love… they marry for love. And they live…? Well, if you know the story, then you also know the ending. The amazing truth is this is precisely Jamee and Jeff’s story. She loves the way he makes her feel, and that she can always depend upon him to help her laugh in both the best and worst of times. They’re simply made for one another, and it shows when they’re together.

When we first met Jamee, she was clearly “our” bride. She’d found us through the sister of a groom whose wedding we’d photographed in 2005 (see Jen & Ed’s wedding). We spent lots of time together talking about how she and Jeff met, their lives together, and how much she loved our photography. We were truly impressed by how in charge they were of their wedding plans. The primary thread that came out of our conversations was how important it was that their pictures remind them of the *people* that surrounded them on their wedding day. So we worked with her to design a timeline that would help Jamee and Jeff relax and have fun during a natural portrait session, and we also kept on the lookout for the great variety of faces of their family, friends and guests. One beautiful segment of the day involved the signing of the ketubah while surrounded by their closest family and friends, followed by Jeff’s veiling of his bride before their public marriage ceremony (click the picture above for a larger version).

Anthony’s was a very accommodating venue, and the staff was very cooperative. Jamee and Jeff made sure we were very well cared for and fed with an excellent multi-course meal (thanks so much! we really appreciate it!). And we loved the music provided by Ed Michaels Orchestra, complete with horn section and the incredible vocals of Debbie Major.

We’re hard at work preparing their online gallery, which will be available soon in the “Client Proofs” area of our main website. But until then, enjoy this slideshow preview of Jamee and Jeff’s wedding (PC only… sorry, no Mac). It will give you a good idea of the beautifully touching and heartfelt moments that Jamee and Jeff shared. Feel free to leave your comments on this blog, as we’d love to hear your feedback. Enjoy!

More with Jamee + Jeff.

  • Ulysses - Thanks so much, Priscille! And let me tell you, your help with rounding up family members was invaluable. We truly meant it. It allowed us to concentrate on getting the shots so that we could keep everyone interested and moving along. And I know Jamee and Jeff appreciated the help, too. More pictures are only days away! Stay tuned. Hugs! 🙂

    U & JMarch 22, 2006 – 12:13 AM

  • Priscille - Fantastic pictures .. you guys are awesome photographers :o)March 21, 2006 – 7:35 PM

Mary Ann and Benjeil share an abiding love for one another and for people. I think that’s the quality that drew us to them, and which also set the tone for our engagement session with them. Mary Ann’s bright and infectious smile and Benjeil’s quiet intensity provided us with ample opportunity to create some beautiful images for them. They were so easy-going, having made the effort to travel quite a distance to spend valuable time with us for this session. We really appreciated this, and their efforts paid off well. They patiently endured the cold and wind with us. When we needed to find shelter in an iron-gated foyer, we took advantage of the interesting light for an emotive fashion session. It was not at all a problem for them to get closer to one another! Their upcoming wedding is going to include some culturally unique and joyous elements that we can’t wait to see.


Their online gallery will soon be available in the “Client Proofs” area of our main website. Until then, enjoy a few of their engagement photos.

The three Beam Kids are a wonderful set of siblings who love life and who enjoy spending time with people. In fact, we felt as if they were family. Today they were the subjects for our cameras and lenses. They put up with a lot, too, with the breezy and cool weather. But since there was such good sunlight out, they braved the chilly air and had a really good time with us. It was so worth it! We tried to keep things fast-moving as well as kept them close together so that they would stay warm. Love you guys! Thanks for being the highlight of our day!! 🙂

Click the picture above to see a larger version. Their full gallery will be made available within the next day or so. Go to our main website, click on the Menu to find “Client Proofs” for the Beam Kids. We hope you enjoy them!

A referral from a previous bride brought us together with Sonyalis and Jim, who are expecting their second baby to arrive any day now! We had a wonderful time at their home. The living room was warm and comfortable, and the large windows allowed a lot of sunlight to poor in. They and their 3-1/2 year old son were adorable. We enjoyed a few traditionial family portraits, and they also allowed us to try a few untraditional and totally joyous things for a memorable maternity session. Sonyalis didn’t want to regret not taking the opportunity to capture herself and her unborn baby in pictures at this most precious time. We were so happy that they found us. Congratulations, guys!

Their full gallery of photos will be made available today. Go to our main website, open the menu, and click on “Client Proofs” for Sonyalis’ Maternity Session. Feel free to leave your own comments here on the blog, as we love hearing from you! Enjoy!

What happens when the photographers and the clients meet for the first time… on the day of their engagement session? Something INCREDIBLE, that’s what!!! 🙂

Though we had lots of correspondence with Brian and even had a small snapshot sent to us so we’d recognize them, we were intensely curious to find out what they’d be like in person. We were so happy to finally meet them. We clicked with them instantly, and we sat to discuss some of the details of their wedding. I won’t spoil it by telling you about those details, but it’s going to be an amazing experience for everyone, while at the same time being very personal and intimate. Keep this blog bookmarked to read more.

We knew how much they appreciated photography since they’d traveled quite a distance, even borrowing a car so they could meet us at the designated location. The time flew by, and though we wanted to continue shooting, we had to break for the evening so we wouldn’t wear out our welcome. They gave us plenty of time to play and experiment a bit (THANKS for trusting us, guys… just wait until the BIG DAY!!).

Their full gallery of photos will be posted soon on our main website. But click on the image here to see a larger photo of this loving couple.

“I love you…” We could tell that those three little words mean so much to Roseanne and Jeff. They were heard using them often during our photo shoot with them. And what better way to feel when you’re holding on so tightly to the one you love!

When we’d taken a half-dozen shots, Roseanne thought we were all DONE! But she was in for a surprise as we asked them to switch positions, move here or there, to GET CLOSER! We’re pretty sure they could tell we enjoyed ourselves just as much as they did. We were on the grounds of the Old Stone Church in Cragsmoor, where their wedding will be held in just a couple of months. We made use of the fantastic view and rustic scenery there, which juxtaposed beautifully with their smiling faces and loving embraces. We can’t wait for the wedding day of these two very special people. (click the picture to the left to see a slightly larger and even clearer version)

Their online gallery will be made available soon. Go to our main website, and click on “Client Proofs” to enjoy their photos.

  • Ulysses - Roseanne & Jeff, we had such a wonderful time with the two of you. We thought we were going to have an audience with us for a little while there, and that would have been totally fine, too. 🙂

    We also enjoyed seeing this old historic church. It’s going to be such a beautiful day for everyone. More pictures coming VERY soon. 🙂March 11, 2006 – 10:42 PM

  • Anonymous - Yes, I actually survived the photo shoot! Jenni, you and Ulysses were so fun to work with and we are so confident that you will capture our wedding day beautifully!The view is an awesome background and I can’t wait to see the rest of the pics.
    RoseanneMarch 11, 2006 – 8:47 PM

The results just came in for the 2005 end-of-year contest for the Wedding Photojournalist Association (WPJA). In among an amazing group of talented photographers from all over the world, we are excited to say that three of our photos placed in the top 20 of their categories. I will show them below (you can click on them to enlarge and see them better):

The first was taken by Ulysses, which placed in the Reception category. This photo was taken at Terri and Brian’s wedding, and I think the excitement and joy are infectious. Ulysses captured such a wonderful moment!



The second is a photo of mine, which placed in the Ceremony category. This was again from Terri and Brian’s wedding. I just loved the expressions on all three faces, and immediately had this one in mind for this particular contest since it tells such a story.


The third is also one of mine, and placed in the Creative Portrait category. This was from Kalan and Mike’s wedding. It was actually taken after their wedding, when we headed up to their room at Monhonk Mountain House for some relaxed photo time. We had such a great time these two I’m sure people could hear us all laughing out in the hallway. : )


Thanks again to all our incredible couples, who trust us and give us the opportunity to create such beautiful photographs.

  • Louis - U & Jenni, congrats! Nice work. I have your blog on my RSS reader. Your work has always inspired and pushed me to go further.March 6, 2006 – 10:32 PM

Although we had only met Sheeba a month before, Ulysses and I felt privileged to be invited to photograph her wedding to John. We started with the preparations at her home, where her friends and family all gathered around her, and the warmth and closeness was apparent. Theirs was a beautiful Indian wedding, with Sheeba wearing three different gowns throughout the day, each one more beautiful than the last.

They had a grand reception at the elegant Florentine Gardens in River Vale, NJ. There were thousands of pink cynbidium orchids to decorate the hall, and beautiful traditional Indian dances to entertain. Thank you, John and Sheeba, for the fabulous meal! It was truly a joy to be among such warm and friendly people. Here is a preview from the wedding photos. The entire photo gallery will be released shortly in our Client Proofs area.

New York is expecting a blizzard this evening, so you might expect we’d hunker down for the day and prepare for the coming Nor’easter.

Nope! So what did we do?

We went to meet Penny and Bob for their engagement photo session. We had such an enjoyable time with them, too. With her gorgeous waves of beautiful red hair, Penny was the very picture of contentment and love as she easily settled into Bob’s arms. Bob didn’t at all seem to mind the holding, hugging, and pampering from Penny.

It always means a lot to us and our style of shooting when our couples feel enough trust in us to “let us in” so that we can capture those momentary and fleeting glances of devotion towards one another. And that’s definitely what we saw with Penny and Bob. Jenni and I anxiously await their wedding day, which promises to be an incredible and unique event.

Many thanks to Penny and Bob for choosing us as your photographers, and especially for braving the below-freezing temperatures. You were totally committed to this session and to one another. We just LOVE that about you.

Their gallery of engagement photos will be available on Monday morning (2-13-06). Go to ulyssesphotography.com, and then to our “Client Proofs” area. Additionally, feel free to leave your comments about the gallery on this blog. We want this to be an interactive experience for everyone to enjoy.

I tried out a few services recently at the Soul Therapy Spa in Fishkill, New York. What a wonderful place! I’m a strong believer in massage therapy, so first I got a massage done by Lori. She does a great job, and every muscle was relaxed afterward. The quiet and calming atmosphere of the spa contributes to releasing any shred of tension you may have.

I also had my first facial – ever! I tried their Champagne facial. What a treat! Kelly is fabulous, and obviously loves her job as much as we love photography. Besides being incredibly relaxing, my skin felt wonderful afterward, and she helped with specific suggestions for skin care. Soul Therapy also carries all-natural skin care products, which is very important to me.

Other services available there include hair care and nail care (including their fabulous Shiatsu pedicure chair). If you’re looking for a spa to enjoy with your girls on your wedding day, or just for a luxurious treat, give Soul Therapy a call at (845) 896-SOUL.

The second segment of our East Coast travels took us to the Boston area for the scheduled birth of our nephew. Ulysses’ brother Eric and his wife Chrissy were eagerly awaiting the arrival of their second son. We arrived a few days early so that we could be there from the start. We weren’t allowed in the operating room, but we documented everything else, from the bagels and coffee that morning, to arrival at the hospital, to everyone’s first peek at Kobe’s face. Ulysses was so excited, he woke me up at 5:20 am with a loud whisper: “Jenni, get up, IT’S TIME!!” What a special thing to be a part of his first day in the outside world. Everyone is just totally in love with him.

  • Andrea - Congrats Ulysses & Jenni! Your new nephew is beautiful 🙂February 2, 2006 – 8:56 AM

  • Jenni - Thanks so much, Leigh and Jamee! The latest we hear is that he’s a quiet, sweet, trouble-free baby. We can’t wait to go visit again.February 1, 2006 – 11:25 AM

  • Jamee G. - He’s beautiful!!! I think the shot of Kobe and his proud big brother is wonderful! Congrats to your family, Ulysses!January 29, 2006 – 10:37 PM

  • leigh miller - so cool U and jenni! congrats to your family – leighJanuary 26, 2006 – 2:19 PM

If you haven’t heard from us much lately, it’s because we’ve been busy traveling the East Coast! We spent about a week in Florida, first visiting my family. It was nice to be together, and we spent a fun day at Epcot Center before heading down to Miami. There we attended a photography seminar by two good friends who are two of the top photographers in the world: Yervant from Australia, and Joe Buissink from L.A. They are amazing photographers and gifted teachers, and we were thoroughly inspired by their imagery and their love for photography. Ulysses and I even had an impromptu photo shoot by Yervant – here is a photo of him shooting Ulysses.

We had a great time in Miami – we loved the culture, the architecture, and the people. We found a great Uruguayan-Argentinian restaurant where the locals go, and the food was incredible. On the last day of our trip, Ulysses and I headed to the Miami Beach area and just walked and walked, enjoying the 78 degree air and the wonderful surroundings. We would love to go back and spend more time – it’s a great vacation spot. We came back refreshed and inspired, and eager to get back to work. Click here for a slideshow of the seminar and the architecture of Miami (sorry, Mac users – PC only).

UPDATE: Click here for a version compatible for both MAC and PC users!

What a perfect January day for a wedding! Leslie and Felipe got married at the beautiful and elegant Rockleigh Country Club in Rockleigh, New Jersey. There we started the day with Leslie and her girls in the bridal room, where she busily prepared to meet her groom. When makeup and hair were just perfect, Leslie slipped into her gown and fur stole, and we slipped outside for some privacy so that Leslie and Felipe could see each other for the first time. The love and affection they have for each other, as well as their excitement that this day had finally come were obvious, and made for some wonderful photographs. Afterward we had time to create some beautiful portraits, and some playful pictures, as well.

From that point on, the day went quickly, from the ceremony through the reception. Many longtime friends had traveled to be there for the couple, and we could tell how excited everyone was to be together. I’m sure it’s a day Leslie and Felipe will never forget, and we’re so glad they will have the photographs to remind them for years to come of the fun they had. Their complete gallery of photos is now available on our website under “Client Proofs”. And feel free to post your comments here – we love to hear from you!

Spring, summer, fall… and WINTER. Love knows all seasons, and the winter time is certainly no exception for Leslie and Felipe. When we met at our planned location, we were very happy to see this quiet and dignified couple. Leslie looked fantastic — hair, makeup and clothing all came together for a beautiful session. And Felipe had no trouble keeping up with her, as they both looked like they’d done this before.

We had a fun time walking around the mansion location, which had been decorated especially for an open house over the weekend to celebrate the historic home’s restoration. The sunlight streaming into the windows was just perfect for capturing their warm smiles and expressive eyes. Though it was cold outside, we also took the opportunity to go for a little drama and fashion. When Honduras-born Felipe got a little chilly, it was a good excuse for him to hold Leslie even closer. The result? A photo session of joyful memories and everlasting love.

Their gallery of images is now available in the “Client Proofs” area of our main website. We’re sure you’ll enjoy seeing them as much as Jenni and I enjoyed taking them.

Jenneen and Gregory do everything in a big way. Their wedding was absolutely no exception. In one evening, they somehow managed to roll celebration after celebration into one gala event that their family and friends will never forget.

We first spent time with Jenneen for last-minute preparation at her home, where Jenneen showed us the fabulous shoes that she MADE for her wedding. We then arrived at Reid Hall, located at Manhattanville College. This six-story, 84-room mansion served up fond memories for the couple, and the chapel next door was where they would be wed. With parents and grandparents looking on, Jenneen and Gregory said their vows to one another. While the event was certainly full of dignity, Jenneen and Gregory also enjoyed themselves, with humorous glances towards the front rows of family.

After taking a few brief pictures of their family, the happy couple spent a little time with us taking some less traditional photos, which they clearly enjoyed doing. To our surprise, Jenneen had some ideas for photo ops that she wanted to try out. She had the energy and the spirit, and so we just went with it! Gotta love a bride who isn’t afraid to express herself in front of camera (we laughed about how she could easily replace Madonna in some of her videos!)

Finally, it was time to go to the incredible V.I.P. Country Club. What a beautiful place, and what an even more excellent staff they have there. We couldn’t say enough positive things about them for the way in which Debbie (the coordinator) and the wait staff treated us. We look forward to working there again. We walked around and took some details of the dining room, where there were TWO cakes, one in the form of stacked and ribboned boxes, the other with a Ferrari logo. The meal was out of this world, too — several times throughout the night, Jenneen and Gregory INSISTED that we eat. With that kind of pressure, we just had to give in (thank you so much, J & G, for making sure we were very well cared for). 🙂

We love live music, and the sounds of the Carozza Brothers kept everyone entertained with music ranging from old Sinatra classics to more modern beats. This accomplished group of musicians, along with very talented vocalists, kept a large number of guests on the floor. Toward the end of the evening, Carozza Brothers thrilled everyone by firing off streamers and confetti into the crowd. The smiles on Jenneen and Gregory’s faces lit the entire room. It was an amazing and fun-filled night.

There’s too much else to describe about their evening — cigar rolling, an awesome Viennese hour, and more! So why not simply go to their gallery of images to see for yourself. A link should be available very soon in the “Client Proofs” section of our main website.

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